A lot of the “reasons” people state when justifying their break-ups are bullshit. “Love eventually dies” is bullshit. Love is like a fire: you have to tend it. Make it…
Continue ReadingYou don’t need to be perfect; you just have to find a good match for you and keep giving it love. I didn’t write ‘the perfect match’ because maintaining a…
Continue ReadingWe talk to a lot of couples – either people we know, or clients – and over and over we see families collapse for seemingly trivial reasons. The actual reasons…
Continue ReadingEven if this passage in the New Testament clearly states the importance for a clergy man of having a wife (only one) and a family with kids to raise, something…
Continue ReadingReal love is facing your fears and your insecurities head-on. Real love does not run away. It does not blame and does not play the victim; that would mean giving…
Continue ReadingSex is great, but it’s a mean, not an end. Too often this gets confused. It’s not about the shape, the form, the physical act. The focus of love making…
Continue ReadingThe Moon – which is almost full – has entered in Capricorn last night. There could be still ‘jumpy’ energies today. After all, Moon and Sun are opposing each other…
Continue ReadingJyothi and I met, when we were 19, on a holiday camp booked at the last minute. At the time we lived in different countries and the internet was not…
Continue ReadingYour partner is your team mate; not an opponent. The goal – when discussing something in a relationship, but also more in general – should be to find a solution,…
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