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Love does not end; it’s people who stop loving

A lot of the “reasons” people state when justifying their break-ups are bullshit. “Love eventually dies” is bullshit. Love is like a fire: you have

You don’t need to be perfect; you just have to find a good match for you and keep giving it love. I didn’t write ‘the

We talk to a lot of couples – either people we know, or clients – and over and over we see families collapse for seemingly

Even if this passage in the New Testament clearly states the importance for a clergy man of having a wife (only one) and a family

Real love is facing your fears and your insecurities head-on. Real love does not run away. It does not blame and does not play the

Sex is great, but it’s a mean, not an end. Too often this gets confused. It’s not about the shape, the form, the physical act.

The Moon – which is almost full – has entered in Capricorn last night. There could be still ‘jumpy’ energies today. After all, Moon and

Jyothi and I met, when we were 19, on a holiday camp booked at the last minute. At the time we lived in different countries

Your partner is your team mate; not an opponent. The goal – when discussing something in a relationship, but also more in general – should